Muslimah's, please memorize this.Found this on Facebook. Felt the need to spread the word.
She asked her: Why don’t you have a boyfriend? She replied with confidence: You tell me. Why would I have a boyfriend? I guess you have no answer for my question, but I have answers for yours. First, I am a believer, I can’t do what displeases my Creator. He ordered me not to to have a boyfriend so I should obey Him.
Allah says in Qur’an: “Nor those who take [secret] lovers." (surat Al-Nisa-25). Secondly, I am a daughter of a man who raised me to be a chaste woman. I am a sister of a man who is proud of my purity, so I don’t want to disappoint them, and most of all I don’t want to disappoint a third man who is my future husband and the father of my children in sha Allah. I am preserving myself to him only.
My mom raised me to be a righteous woman so that I deserve a righteous man. She never raised me to be a toy in any boy’s hand, but she raised me to complete the Deen of a pious man.Also, I am not an easy girl who would be impressed with sweet love words, but I am a proud Muslimah who is just like a pearl in its shell. No one can touch it but a brave man who would value it and cherish its beauty.
Dear Muslimah's. Know your worth, and Be that One In Million who love to have the love of their Lord more than the love of a boyfriend!
Credit to: Aisyah Shakirah, http://aisyahshakirah.blogspot.com/2012/08/why-dont-i-have-boyfriend.html